Tuesday, February 23, 2010

He's Ours!




It is official, Evan is our son. We finished up all of the Chinese adoption paperwork today. We had to go back to the civil affairs building and to the police station to finish it all but it is finished. Chongqing does a special ceremony when everything is all done and they hand you your child's "red book". It really was very special and I'm glad we had an option to buy pictures from them. They had someone taking pictures while the ceremony was taking place. We did have to go to the police station and wait for about an hour so they could issue Evans Chinese passport at the end of the week. Seemed like forever.



Evan became pretty quite when we all loaded the car for the civil affairs office. Then it became apparent he was nervous. He had a hold of Taylor's hand and was not letting go for anything. The assistant director came into the room and approached Evan. He let go of Taylor's hand and waved to her. He thought he was going back. He looked so sad. We did our ceremony, paperwork and left to go to dinner. When we all went back to the car you could see him relax again.

We took him to McDonald's for dinner. He loved it except I'm thinking he is going to only like ketchup only on his burgers. I wasn't about to try and explain that one. ;) You should have seen him open up while we were there. It was amazing. It was like he could relax. He was giggling and pointing things out. Was a bit too shy to go play on the playground even though he really wanted to.





When we returned to the hotel both he and Taylor had to go to the bathroom. I told Taylor to run to the room and go. My thinking was by the time we arrived at the room she would be done and Evan could go. Well Evan and Taylor raced towards our room with one boy giggling all the way. It was way too sweet for words. So now the both race to see who is going to make it there first. Last time Evan was hiding around the corner in front of our door and tried to pop out and scare Bob. I'm telling you this boy is sweet! He loves Taylor and I truly believe it is because of the young lady that helped him in his class.

Evan watch a bit of Signing Time DVD today and picked up the signs fast! Awhile later he was watching a cartoon and there was an airplane in it and he started signing plane to Bob. He is learning really fast.



Leslie, the toy he is playing with in yesterdays pictures is a little flashlight that casts a picture on the wall or a seat. He loves that toy. Mickey Mouse is a big hit with him. The measurements the orphanage sent is dead on. The clothes we brought fit him great.

We're off to bed. I hope we can all sleep past 4am. Evan was up at 5am and I think it was because of us. Tomorrow will be another day where Evan may be a bit unsure. We will tour the outside grounds of his orphanage with the possibility of the inside. Please keep us in your prayers. Thank you for all who have been emailing and leaving comments! They mean the world to us.


16 comments:

  1. We are so happy for all of you! And so in awe of how God has put a peace in this adorable little guy's heart so that he can relax and bond with his FAMILY!
    Love to you all, Gene,Sherry and Boys

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  2. Congratulations!!! I am soooo very excited to meet this little man! This is such a huge blessing! Love you all! ~Sis

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  3. I don't think I will ever tire of watching children being united with their families. He is precious!! Congratulations and thanks for sharing!
    Barbara
    awaa

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  4. So glad it is going well Cheri...he is a handsome boy!!! Can't wait to watch the rest of your time in China!!

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  5. I'm SO happy to read how well he's transitioning, but how sad he must have been to think he was returning. Soon he'll realize you are there to STAY. :)

    Love you all!!!!

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  6. I've been following along for a while and am so glad that Evan is fitting in just perfectly with your family! It's lovely to read about. Makes my heart sing just a little....

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  7. What an update. Yes me too like Carla, so happy to read of how well he is doing with his new family and sad that he was nervous about going back.

    On the measurements, THANK YOU!!! I need to go and buy some essentials for Joel and a few outfits. We are thinking we'll let him choose some more when he gets home. If his measurements are accurate, our two oldest boys are the same size!!! LOL! And my newest son is almost as tall as me! Not LOL! :)

    I can't wait to see your updates everyday. We have been out all morning, so I couldn't wait to jump on the computer!!!

    Praying and praising God!

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  8. You have a gift for writing... We pray that circumstances continue to flow well and that God will replace Evan's fear with His love!

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  9. Oh what wonderful answers to prayer! Thanking God for the mighty way He's moving in your lives today...

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  10. Cheri he is so handsom. He seems to have quite the personality cant wait to meet him! Love you -Cait

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  11. Hi Cheri!!! I haven't checked your blog recently, but I was thinking about you and wondering how things were going. So I checked your blog...I had good timing!! I'm glad to see things are going well. Looking forward to "getting to know" Evan :)

    Best Wishes,
    Melissa Neyland (Owen's mom)

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  12. I am so excited to see him just fitting right into your family like he has always been there!! He is so handsome btw!! And you look like you are glowing even though you are probably tired!!

    God is so good!!

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  13. Wow, sounds like things are going great. I'm so happy for you and Evan!

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  14. I get so emotional reading your posts! Evan is absolutely precious! I am just so happy for you guys!!! Praying for the orphanage visit tomorrow. Hugs, stacy

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  15. Congratulations on Evan's official adoption! YAY! Oh Cheri, he looks like he is absolutely perfect and sounds like the sweetest little boy ever. So happy for all of you and so glad that Evan is finally in your arms. That was so sad when he thought he was going back and hopefully soon he will understand that he now has a wonderful, beautiful and loving family.

    Love you guys,
    Jonni

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  16. very great smile Evan's with you and family walk and trip wowo good time hope i will pray you and family .. i can't wait see you bye friend mary taylor

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